I was yesterday years old when I learned that putting " after a number indicates inches and not feet.
...which means I've been telling people that Jane is only six inches tall instead of six feet tall.
Laying in bed and I...I just proved how much I need pillow!Jane in order to function.
Aka I had a moment of panic cause I didn't have her close enough (meaning, some part of my body touching her). I don't even want to think about what losing her would be like.
...so I'm still going by Xander but now I also go by Elyse (and yes, my pronouns are still they/them). Carry on.
A pink teddy bear to match her hair color.