Looking forward to the play and the thriller, WG.
I’m no longer taking care of my daughter all day. She is going to try to get through mornings and early afternoons on her own, and I will pick up her kid and bring him home and hang out for a couple hours. Hope it works out. She s doing well.
So, with actual free time before me, I am going to write a story about a haunted garbage disposal.
Coffee please.
I'm sorry for your loss, Gill. Some seasons of life, the hammer just keeps coming down. You are among friends here, feel free to vent. We've all been there.
I just got dropped by my neurologist, for reasons that are unclear, but probably involve clearing Medicare patients off the rolls so they can make more money. I got another one, so they won't interrupt my care. But, at least here in the US, it's clear the billionaires have taken over. Sigh.
Coffee please.
Starting to get back to normal. I'm actually spending the morning at home, before heading over to my daughter's place in the afternoon. A complication has reared its head, but things should be fine.
I probably should be writing, but right now I'm just soaking in the peace of a free morning with no obligations.
A much-needed therapy session in a couple hours! Coffee please!
I'm glad you are getting over your pneumonia, Gill, and that your dad is happy. That's important!
Things are going pretty well with my daughter's recovery. One complication reared its head this week, but nothing we can't deal with. I'm getting used to all the animals in her house. Only three of them, but that darned bird is annoying.
About halfway through Moby Dick. It's a good book.
Thanks for the treats Ape.
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How about some cute, fun metal for Saturday afternoon? I mean, Baby Metal are definitely an acquired taste but who can argue with a song called "Gimme Chocolate."?
The amazing thing is that the crowd in the pit are just as lively for them as for any more serious, heavier band.
Hey, even I know this band. And this song!
Here's a band we saw live last weekend: the Mavericks. The great Flaco Jimenez (who is playing in this song) was not touring with them.
Hoo boy, a day off! Watching the Mets-Yankees game (no score) and a play later (Sister Act, which I REALLY don't want to see, but Talia does, and that's what marriages are made of).
Overall, the caretaking is going a little easier than expected. Downside is, I get really tired by 6 or so, and I've been exhausted by the end of the drive home. Hoping to regain my energy this weekend.
Coffee please! I hope everyone is well.
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That's great. Progress is always good when recovering.
Never read Moby Dick. Not sure if I ever will. My ability to read much of anything seems limited these days.
It’s a fun read, though you have to drag your way through the occasional boring section (types of whales, anyone?). But Arab is a gas. And I just finished the part about the real life whale attacks that MD is based on. Cool
Daughter continues to improve. This will be a little easier than we thought it would be.
My goal is to be able to protest with her on June 14. Flag day. Trump’s birthday. Military parade. It’s gonna be a day.
My daughter can now stand up and sit down without assistance. That’s a big breakthrough!
While she recovers, I am reading Moby Dick. It’s an easier read than I expected. Once Arab enters the picture, it’s a fun read.
I have edited exactly 3 pages of my own novel. Not exactly tearing it up with my pace.
All for now. A late afternoon coffee would be swell!
So my daughter's surgery went fine, though it will be a long recovery. She ran a high fever for a couple days, but it finally broke. I'm her daily care team.
Dwight Yoakam was great, though it was cold as f (outdoor venue) . He got a little outshone by the Mavericks, who were his opening band and really rocked the place.
That's about all for now. Hope everyone is well. I'm going to get some sleep.
It raining cats and dog here. I just stepped in a poodle!
Sorry, couldn't resist the pun. It really is raining hard here. My daughter goes into surgery tomorrow, then an overnight in the hospital, and then I am caretaking for her for the next 8 weeks, with the able help of her boyfriend. I'm a litle scared but we will all be fine in a couple months.
Also - taking Talia to see the great Dwight Yoakum in concert on Friday. Should be fun.
Carpe that diem folks!
Finished the (very) rough first draft of a novel. Timed it perfectly. I'm taking the day off of writing, though since I have a dentist appointment at 1, it doesn't really feel like a day off.
A running joke in our house is that dental appointments are always at 2:30. Tooth hurty! Get it? Hahahahahahahah!
Carpe that diem, folks! Coffee and a brownie would be swell.
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Morning all!
Another big issue with Dad last week. I’m thankful we got him moved to the 24/7 care floor in February or I don’t know what we’d do.
But Spring is here! I’m spending lots of time in the parks. Big week in Louisville with the Derby! Celebrities. Mint juleps. Derby Pie (my fav)
Yay! and Yay! The Derby looks like serious fun. Congrats on getting a bed for your Dad.
I sold two stories in one week last week! That's never happened before.
My daughter is going to have a major operation in about a week, and I am caretaking for a couple months as I help her out (and edit the novel in my spare time). So I might be around here less. But I'll be popping my head in!
Yeah, I agree, WG really is a really great presence on the site, and a with with heart and skill and an eye for the exact right detail.
Nothing new here. Did an Easter egg hunt in the backyard for grandson and two other kiss and 75 plastic eggs! There kicker is this: we saw our neighborhood bobcat in the back yard Easter morning. Thankfully he ate no kids. Or eggs.
I'm going to be hitting plastic eggs with the lawnmower all summer. 
Is there coffee?
Woke up too early today. 6:30. I got up and called my elected officials - I do that every morning. The interns at the sole Republican's office know me by name! Or phone number, anyway.
Time to write, but I fear I may be too tired. Do I have permission to go back to bed?
I have a spooky story up. https://www.storiesspace.com/stories/horror/a-voice-made-of-leaves
Sigh. Coffee please.
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I'm one step closer to having my father's long-term healthcare kick in. I'll be in shock when they hopefully approve everything.
It was a quiet weekend. We did some yard work and started working on our garden plots. The rain over the weekend did help wash some of the pollen away. I wiped my kitchen counter, and the cloth ended up green. I think everyone is sneezing.
I hope everyone has a good week. Cheers.
Sound like you are nearing the finish line! Then you can sleep for a month and a half and slowly begin to heal.
I just put up a flash-ish horror story called A Voice Made of Leaves. Hope you like it.
I used to listen to news all day long while I write. Clearly I can't do that anymore. I get too upset. So I've been writing lately to the Flow soundtrack. Really peaceful and lovely. Both the animated movie and the soundtrack are wonderful.
Coffee and a bear claw please.
We watched the gorgeous animated move, Flow, last week. I quit listening to news for large chunks of the day and am now listening to the Flow soundtrack
Ooh, yum, brownies! I love brownies, clean or unclean.
Going to the doc with Talia today. Nothing big, just a follow-up. Write a little beforehand, home just in time for the supper and The Game. Mets are still hanging onto first place by the skin of their teeth.
Coffee and a clean brownie please!
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I’m glad the system worked for you! ❤️
I’m told you have to deplete your assets now before Medicaid kicks in. And here, there’s a wait for a Medicaid bed in facilities. My friend waited two years before she could get her mom in one in Lexington. It’s hard. You work you whole life, save, then a major health crisis can take it all in a short time. We’re still thinking Dad won’t outlive his money. Hoping, anyways.
Headed on a twins weekend to Nashville!! Woohoo! A nice break!
Y’all enjoy your weekend! ❤️
Yeah, I had to fight for years to get my retirement account--401(a), not 401(k)--declared as NOT an asset. It finally worked. And then needed a State Rep's help to find a bed. Good for you for keeping your head in the fight. It's so easy to get discouraged.
Going to the dentist today. Wah. But it's a GORGEOUS day outside, and going to the dentist mean I don't have to write, so it's like having the day off.
Coffee!
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Mr Ape, Retirement was the plan for me until my parents got Alzheimer’s and I’ve seen how much these memory care places cost in our country. And the fear of what might happen to social security. Now, I’ll probably never fully retire. What seemed like enough money for me, no longer seems like enough.
I do plan on at least evolving into a more pleasant career path, though.
Medicaid paid for a memory care bed for us, back in the day. Of course, those systems are being quickly dismantled. And I’m sure you’ve probably already looked into it. But it was a lifesaver for us (though we needed the help of a State Representative to make it official).
We had to turn off the news yesterday. We were both getting too depressed by it.
Coffee please!
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Ooo exciting about your novel! What an accomplishment. I envy you who can write the long ones. I’ve come to accept my writing sweet spot is 3K or under.
3K is my comfort zone for sure, I understand! I just keep writing bad novels, until I get enough practice under my belt to write a mediocre one.
Same old thang here. Weather is nice, and the Mets have won 6 in a row. I've made my daily calls to my elected officials and am ready to write.
Seize the Deim!
I like Paul Krugman’s Substack too. Our fave Substcker is Heather Cox Richardson, a political historian. She has videos too, twice a week, where she talks about American history, and they remind us of FDR’s fireside chats (on purpose I think).
Tough to read the headlines every morning. Again, what keeps me sane is making calls to my elected officials. I feel less hopeless. And writing my little 3 sentence speech every morning helps me focus and move on from the news.
Almost done with the first draft of the novel!
And the Mets have won 5 in a row!
Coffee please.
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Ooo I’ll take a peek at it.
Mine is intended as a supplement to elementary history lessons about colonial times. So they are very simply written for elementary kids to read. There are 3 of them.
That sounds like a cool project. We need to remember our history.
I'm actually writing a little non-fiction about the space program right now. The Mercury, Gemini and Apollo programs, focusing on the early years. And a time when our government could accomplish great things. I also want to write about the Interstate system, though I know how boring that sounds.
Coffee please. It's a sunny day!
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Verbal, I’m curious. How long does the 18th in line have to wait?
About 10 minutes, but I can do other things during it. My whole morning set of phone calls and emails take about 20 minutes. Currently 12 on today's queue.
I'm feeling you, Gill. And now sleep-walking? I'm sorry the stress is so taxing.
The Dow is down 1500 this morning. They're crashing the economy on purpose. I may have to un-retire at this rate. Sigh.
Coffee please.
Morning all.
Mets lost, but Elon lost too, so we'll call it a draw.
Nothing new here. Still writing, still walking, still married to a cool drink of water for a wife, still watching baseball.
I'm currently 18th in line to leave a message for the President. LOVE this hold music.
Coffee and a brownie please!
Hey everyone.
Nothing new here. We have some friends coming for the weekend of the April 5 Hands Off protests. Making signs this week. It’s fun. And frightening. Weird to bond over protests, but I suspect it won’t stay weird. It may become common.
And baseball is back! Mets have only 1 win after 3 games, but it’s early.
Coffee please. Any donuts back there?
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I did not need to know that the rustling in corn fields is rats. Ewwwww.
Apparently, appointing people who are not qualified to do the job causes a whole host of issues. I'm not surprised by any of it; that is a sad state of affairs.
I still have to fight with insurance companies on behalf of my father. Some days, I want to crawl under a rock or throw that rock at someone. At least I have found a therapist I like, who is helping me with ways to cope with all the upheaval of the last six months or so. I'm so tired most days, but I am trying to have a more positive attitude.
I hope everyone is having a better week than I am. Take care of yourselves. Cheers.
When my Dad died, the minute I canceled his Medicare, all the bills began coming straight to me. It was like fighting off wolves. I paid for awhile, then I quit taking their calls. I'm still avoiding an ambulance ride bill ($1000!). My heart is with you Gill.
Took the day off of writing yesterday to send out 5 stories. Fingers crossed.
And speaking of fingers crossed, IT'S BASEBALL SEASON! METS GAME AT 2!
Coffee please.
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The Orange Menace rages…supreme?
The first major stumble occurred yesterday, and it was kinda stunning. Glad no one got hurt.
Warm day, sunny skies, the whole day to write, the administration on defense: a good day.
Baseball season starts tomorrow!
A coffee, and I will dream of baseball cookies.
Where's Cora? Hope you are doing okay....
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Hi everyone! 😊
I agree with Gillian, a cornfield is an excellent setting. My neighborhood I grew up in backed into a cornfield. I’d watch kids play in it from my 2nd floor bedroom window. I loved playing hide-n-seek and tag and just exploring. As we aged, the games changed in that cornfield. 😉
Enjoy the weekend everyone! ❤️
It's fun to write about cornfields, because I grew up around them, and know all sorts of creepy details. For instance, if you walk into a cornfield, much of the rustling you hear around you is...rats!
Speaking of creepy, saw a great production of Turn of the Screw last night. One of the great induring ghost stories. I find Henry James impossible to read, but Turn of the Screw is his masterpiece.
Coffee would be swell.
